As I’ve mentioned in my previous writeup, I get a huge amount of visitors to this site searching for information on breasts. With search phrases such as:
“will losing weight make your breasts smaller”
“my boyfriend says my breasts are too small”
“how to make big breasts look smaller”
“exercises to get bigger boobs”
“why breasts are saggy”
… I cant help but have a few things to say, okay.. who am I kidding - an entire writeup to comment on this issue actually..
***This is a very touchy issue, and me, being a guy - most of you women may be asking yourselves right now - What does he know about our issues? True, so let me just remind you, that this just my opinion, and mine alone and you don’t have to agree with it***
I believe it says a lot about society today when women everywhere are becoming more and more obsessed with their breast size. Men too are becoming more and more obsessed with a woman’s breast size.. but thats another story altogether. It even comes to a point that in some countries, getting breast implants as soon as they hit 18 have become a trend. I once watched a documentary where there was this teenage girl who proudly stood with her so called ’supportive’ parents telling the world how they’ve been accumulating their savings to get their precious daughter a boob job for her 18th birthday. What kind of a birthday gift is that? You might as well get her a birthday card that says ‘Happy Birthday, dearest underdeveloped-flat-chested Daughter-whom we don’t love the way that you are! Love, Mom & Dad.”. It’s sad to see that those who are not so well endowed are often viewed as being less of a woman.
Does size really matter?
I once read that there’s been a huge (pun not intended) increase in breast enhancement surgery and push up bra sales ever since the early nineties.. and it doesnt take a genius to figure out why. So what if you’ve got smaller breasts than the person next to you? Or, so what if you’ve got larger breasts than the girl next door? It doesnt make you a lesser or better person.
Indeed, many men often drool at the thought of large breasted women, and that makes me wonder if this is what drove women to have this mindset that larger breasts are the norm, and therefore necessary to be accepted in today’s society? What is your purpose of looking good..? Its a good thing that you want to look your best, even I myself want to look my best at all times - but who are you doing it for? Why do you dress up, and look good? For your own pleasure/satisfaction, or is it purely for the opposite sex, or are you just trying to fit in/blend into society?
Its come to a point now that women can alter their breast size during their lunch break with a breast enhancement operation and can even alternate between cup sizes for a different look with specially designed breast pumps and the 101 gadgets and gizmos they try to sell you on that silly Smartshop shopping show thingy you see on TV.
It is predicted that as much as 70% of flat chested women or women with small breasts in the US and UK alone will undergo breast enhancement by 2015 as prices fall and techniques become more practical. Is this what we really want?
Chances are if you have small breasts and are reading this, chances are high you have already had a discussion or perhaps mentioned the idea to a friend about enhancing that bust of yours. But does size really matter? On screen, in magazines all over the world - the answer would be a YES.
There are also many women who refuse to give in to peer pressure or the media’s appetite for a bigger chest, and to remain natural. To these women - I salute you.
I’ve also known people who used to want bigger breasts, but now, are content with their bust size cos their clothes fit better. Bigger breasts may look great and draw the attention of the opposite sex but they can also be unpractical, and a burden. I believe that for every woman wishing they have bigger breasts, there is a large breasted women out there who would gladly switch places.
Also, large breasts sag quicker, and require more support (I know of people who don’t jog/run on the treadmill because it hurts!) while smaller breasts tend to keep their form and shape much longer and generally look better, more proportionate with the body.
While having small breasts might SEEM like a glitch in your physique, it really isn’t.. and unless your dream to have bigger breasts is genuine and for emotional reasons and not superficial reasons, then a bigger bust could just mean bigger problems for you. Bigger isn’t always better.
At the end of the day, only you can answer whether you’re happy with your breasts, but just ask yourself this before you come to a conclusion:
In the first place…
Who told you that you were insufficient in any way?
Who told you that you’re not beautiful the way you are?
If you think about it, this could apply to many other areas in our life and not only our chests.
Your friend and coach,
DM
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Yeah… 1st!
I’ll throw in my more meaningful and a tad more intellectual comment later on.. just wanted to be the 1st.
may the bres men…whoops… wins!
haha.. true true.. inner beauty is always more important! We should always be happy for ourselves and not for the sake of others! Only that can we truly be happy.. =)
the picture is distracting lar. when I scroll down I keep going up again, now if keep scrolling up and down is a certain pace….oh well ;)
I have dated women with LARGE breasts and SMALL breast and honestly. size does not matter. I truthfully like small breasts with perky dark nippples but I don’t look at a woman’s breasts when I ask her for a date.
Alfred Kuchinski
there is a member in axis during evenings who has these incredibly big, almost dolly parton-like boobies. she is petite and slim and they sit up there, so firm and protruding….many wonder if they are natural….( so are all the guys going to check her out? :-))
i feel for her, the back ache she will have supporting them and the stares she gets coz they look kinda freaky; and i am thankful of my slowly diminishing ones….
Not each time your heart skips a beat and you simply lose all your senses because only thoughts about her run through your head.
Not each time her fragile scent fills the very air you breathe and you cant help but only to ponder as to what she is feeling this exact same moment in time.
Not each time you look into her eyes and could only manage to see the innocence in her heart that beats ever so softly only for your very existance.
Not each time her sun drenched tresses caress your face when you lie beside her whispering into her gentle ears the softest of whispers.
Not each time she guides your hand as you pass through the periless unknown seeking sanctuary knowing only the comfort of her arms.
Now, does size really matter?
i personally think a perky butt is kinda more attractive then perky breasts on any random female. a random thought. anyone agrees?
-Princess Shin- : Yeah, and though external appearance can add on to your self-confidence and give you an overall good feeling of yourself, inner beauty is what matters the most. If you dont have that, even all the enhancement surgery in the world wont make you a better person.
sharil: Why don’t you just save it and set it as your desktop wallpaper..
Alfred Kuchinski: An honest opinion.. thanks.
sunshine: Are you referring to the woman whos always walking around with that guy who only ‘walks’ as if he’s got an amazing physique?
Jay: You’ve been reading those soppy lovey-dovey books haven’t you..
suN: I’d like to raise both my hands up in agreement.. but then, I wont be able to type. I SO agree with you..
bingo, DM
most nice bras are made up till cup C only…any bigger have to settle for full cup auntie version.
:)
hey DM;
Pretty interesting topic to talk bout. I personally think that size to an extent play’s a role, i mean SMALL!! dude anythin tt’s small will never make an impact!! BIG is wicked!!!! imagine getting sandwiched btw BIG titts!!! Well anyway on a serious note, its a pretty well written article. KUDOS!!!! job well done!!!!
Hey I’ve noticed that particular woman with those dolly parton-like boobies itoo, but who wouldn’t? Because all she and her guy does (husband I pressume) is parading around the gym most of the time and I don’t think I’ve ever seen them sweat a single drop, besides just taking a stroll on the threadmill. Evenn the locker room, all she ever does is look at herself in the mirror half the time, arranging her boobs before heading out again, and has never showered before I think. Sorry I may sound pathetic but I just can’t help it coz she’s practically everywhere, its as if she wants to be noticed big time and I do suspect that she’s got implants coz they look pretty stiff and just sticks in the same position; girl’s opinion here :P
Mmm…to me, small, firm and shapely breasts are preferable by FAR to big and saggy ones. Implants are worse as they look unnaturally rigid and stick straight up when lying down.
Weight training will only enhance the shape and lift of a lady’s bosom. A little muscle cleavage is very sexy and does wonders to hide unattractive and prominent chest bones (sternum/ribcage).
A fellow fitness related blogger once commented that I am not proportionate for my size and my small frame to which I replied, “I AM proportionate, it’s the other girls that aren’t.” He hee, I thought that was cute.
To me, symmetry is more important than size…
small breasts with slim waist are much more attractive than XL boobs
Arrgh. This writeup seems to have diverted off course!! Ha ha.
Mark: Big does not mean better you perv..
J: Interesting.. now I’m never gonna look at her the same way again. She seems to come for a catwalk at the gym rather than to workout anyway..
Guan: Yes, weight training does wonders without having to go under the knife.
The Yoga Instructor: I think you look just fine, with a little fine extras that only make you look better.
T+1: Yeah.. even when it comes to muscle proportions on guys, symmetry is what makes the difference, and not size, in my opinion.
my breast r saggy they hang and fat my back and neck hurts all the time and would like the firm then up i need to find something i can take to help with the fat and find an exercise plan to do at home please help thank you
jamie
yes, size matters, more specifically, the RIGHT size does matters… a lot. Try getting into certain ballroom dress without any breast at all, its tough and you won’t be able to carry it off gracefully. But then…, one should not be slave to our cloths, now should we? and then… we have to consider.. are our body propotionate? these things we can’t change. For other things there’s MASTERCARD. *wink* Did u know that for some women it is so big it is neccessary, in fact better for them to reduce it? Really do u think they want all that attention? I dun think so. Like I said.. its about the right size. The way I see it.. I would invest in such a business, MONEY MONEY MONEY. u will be amaze at how CHINA does it, its like fast food! ppl Q up to have their noses, eyelids done, and only takes a few hours maybe. Hey who doesn’t wanna be beautiful, inside AND out.
i know of guys who prefer well-endowed females.. but it was just to show off, or to boost their own ego. but when asked in-depth abt their real desires, they said that it really didnt matter if it was big or small.. it had to be proportionate.. “the whole package counts” to quote a male friend of mine.
DM: hi-5 on the perky butt thingy! :D haha!
T+1: agreed *nods furiously*
steveneleven: i do think some feel like they’re toppling over. i have got a friend who’s seriously considering reducing bust size
But remember Godzilla… Size Does Matter :D
hey lemme tell ya that i was undergoing a depression over my sagging breasts at the age of just 24. too much sex and gravity had taken its toll on my once perky and big breasts and now they ahve become smaller and a little saggy.i m now doing mba and a fellow in my class is stick thin and size 36DD i think. i got even more frustruated but slowley it dawned upon me that her breasts did not make her more knowledgeble and mine didnt make me look stupid also i discovered that no matter how i look it’s my knowledge that mattered .
actully more ppl know me and wish to talk to me . so then its all about how u r in the end and really it’s the self esteem that matters.
and btw youth will definately go and leave behind a bad body that we will hate but more important is the grey matter .
very happy: 24 and too much sex.. hmm… ok, lets not go there. Well, I wont be unrealistic and say that ‘looks dont matter’, but I’ll be honest and tell you that I personally think that physical appearance and looks DO matter - but only to a certain extent. And when compared to the character and personality of a person, looks and appearance are very very low on the scoresheet. I think its awesome that you realise what’s important - True Beauty, cos not many people do. That’s something you can’t build overnight or inject yourself with, or undergo surgery to enhance. Thanks for your comment - its an eye-opener.
well, all i can say is that im only 15 an A and my mom’s a DD, i have to take all the guys telling me htey can’t wait till i grow up , really upsetting sometimes, i get so frustrated. but im going to be patient, and hope to God, im getting bigger, Soon
Ash: But… DOES size really matter? I guess for you, it does. There’s nothing wrong if your breasts DON’T get bigger… if your friends would prefer you to have bigger breasts… then I think you need new friends!
So, it was a while ago, but Steveneleven mentioned trying to fit into a certain ballroom gown with no breasts. But imagine trying to fit into a ballroom gown (or anything, for that matter) with size DD breasts! They only squeeze to a certain extent. In high school I went prom dress shopping with a friend of mine who is well-endowed, and she couldn’t fit into half the things she took into the fitting room! We smaller girls can always stuff if we need a little extra filling, but there’s nothing bigger girls can do outside of surgery, and intense sports bras. I like me B-cup breasts just fine, thanks!
kiss me kate: Its always the case ain’t it…. those with larger breasts want smaller ones… and those with smaller ones want them larger. Compared to the majority out there, there are only a handful (like you), who are happy with what they have. :)
hi, ive read your articile and fonud it insightful, its very true, that women with larger breasts want smaller ones and visa versa, cos i can totally relate, i hate the way the media and magzines put pressure on women to have the ‘perfect’ breasts. im 18 and a 38D and i would do anything to have them back to a 38 b! as there gone droopy and i have become so selfconcious that any man would hate them and me because of there droppy ! but theres not much i can do to fix it and i just have to live with it
sarah rose: You’ve got me thinking. Yes I agree with you.. and at the same time, let us also realise that there are many out there who have large breasts which are solely due to excessive bodyfat levels, and that’s not a very good thing. So for those people, if it can be helped to a certain extent, and get them fit and in excellent shape at the same time.. they should at LEAST give it a shot, instead of ‘accepting’ it and in a way, giving up.
hey sarah dont worry about your breasts. even i worried for some time about my own , just check if u are overweight and reduce your weight to the right one. besides you could team it with some little chest excercise which now i think any body should include in the daily routine. although there is no permanent solution try also finding a right support bra a cotton one provides the best support.
that was about the muscle but remember any guy who likes u should like u and not ur body. a mature guy would not even pay attention to your body but how mature u are.
and most important of it all sarah is u. u should be proud of urself. your happiness should not be dependent on some1 else accepting u or being happy about posessing i mean u or breasts are not things your breasts are a part of u. not that ” i-like-u-but-not-ur-breasts”.
it all depends on u dear girl
regards
hey rati vyas ! that for the imput!! its nice to have i girls comment i used to be fat when i was younger and lost l most of the weight and am a healty weight but my problem is because i lost the weight my boobs are really really droppy!! . i know that it shouldnt be a big deal to me or any guy its just ive never let any guy c my boobs, i work out every day and do chest exercises but because theres no muscle in breasts it really dosent work but i still do it any way, c if you can give some advise on this ive been friends with this guy for the past 4 years, hes a teacher,25 and is a big flirt and will flirt with anything,.and acts at times like a 2 year old! recently we got together and im afraid that he wont accept my boobs or tell his mates, or say to me that he dosent mind and he loves them and me ,but deep down he cant bare to look at them or touch them but wont tell me and as a resultr hell look at me weird sometimes , or compare mineto some other girls hes been with? and i just dont no wat to do? wat do u think?
could it be the kind of brassiere u have been/ are wearing?
That’s easy - grab one 10g weight plate - hold with right hand, and swing hard on 25 yr old teacher’s face.
hey fitchick no its not ”brassiere” big boobs run in the family ,and because of all the weight lost there now realy droopy but thats for toughts. dailymuscle that is very amusing ,so your saying if he dosent like it , or does any of the above i mentioned, i should smack him in the face with a very heavy plate! and then dump him?
Ash, I honestly wish I were like you. I HATE my breasts. They are too large and they sag. They look so disgusting to me. Why do girls and women want larger breasts, when all they will do is sag? Lets not even talk about how you cannot run, play sports, and sometimes even walk with large breasts. My back and shoulders hurt often. I cannot play basketball anymore. Every bra I find does not fit me like it should, and you have to pay out the wazoo to get bras custom made for your size. I miss the days when I had no breasts, and I could run and play ball. Now I look for ways to hide or minimize my breasts because I hate them so much. I feel like a cruel joke has been played on me, because every shirt I wear causes my damn breasts to stick out. No matter what I do they are there right in front of guy’s faces, and they will stare and comment on them. Please for the love of God, pray that you do not receive large breasts. Pray that they are small or even pray to stay just the way you are. I would gladly take the place of a flat chested woman. Large breasts are not amazing, cool, sexy, or fun. I am telling you large breasts will cause you to wish you never had them. I would rather be able to walk around without a bra on, than have to actually wear a bra and wish I never had these damn breasts. Enjoy your body the way it is, because I would gladly give away mine for the freedom flat chested girls have.
I’m a guy who likes a sparkle in a woman’s eyes, her laugh, that shine that can captue the heart. After that, whatever the size of her chest is doesn’t matter.
When holding a lady like that in a hug or embrace, I want to feel her near me; because she feels so good to be held.
Sometimes, it seems that larger breasts get in the way of being “close.” They push away from having your bodies touch as much as possible.
Size for me then, does matter, smaller is better–not totally flat (an A, B cup is nice). But I want to hold Her. Big boobs get in the way.==I’m not saying that I’d never go for a larger breasted woman: again, if her eyes, and heart, capture me, what else matters? Only, if her breasts are too large, it takes a little away form the comfort of really being in close contact.
So, that’s a different perspective on size. When I want to be near a lady, I don’t want to be held back by two footballs, much less, un-natural ones.
woofwoof: well said *applause*
I am 15 with an A chest. Many guys love my body. I have long toned legs and a nice ass, but they always hate my small breasts. I feel very selfconcious when im around guys because they only go for girls with large boobs. My entire family has small breasts so I probably wont get any bigger. Help?
Also, does anybody know any good excersizes that can help enlarge my breasts a little more?
I just stumbled across this by accident, and wow, I was so happy to read such a thoughtful and most of all respectful piece of writing about this from a guy. Seems like I’m not the only one who is so fed up with the size question. Or should I say obsession?
I’m in the smaller category myself - sometimes an A cup, sometimes a B cup, depending on labels and such. I admit there were times when I wished they were bigger (puberty, anyone?), but I really don’t anymore. I am totally against teenage plastic surgery (except in really extreme cases - say, you have a nose the size of Ayer’s rock), becasue did anyone REALLY like his/her body over the teenage years? If yes, I’ll give you a medal, heh. Honestly, judging a woman by her breasts it’s as insane as judging men by penis size alone *rolls eyes* I don’t feel inadequate about small(er) and/or natual breasts. I like mine. They’re well-proportioned and firm. So there.
In fact, and this comes from someone who’s run two half marathons and does quite a lot of exercise, I can’t imagine having a bigger chest than what I’ve got. It would just be hindering my activities, and I don’t fancy a bad back or cow’s tits when I’m older. My friend is a DD cup and she’s thinking about a reduction for the same reasons.
Sure, there are occasions when, say, a C cup would look quite nice - ballroom gowns, or tank tops. But as someone said earlier, with a “good” bra you can get there if the occasion asks for it. Stuffing myself with implants when I’m perfectly healthy? *shudders*
However, breast augmentation/reconstruction after for example cancer treatment I do find acceptable. but that’s different, I guess.
That was an interesting article, but after reading the comments, I suppose having a small chest isn’t so bad. I guess it’s true, too, that if you have smaller breasts, you’d want bigger ones, and vice versa for girls with bigger breasts. Although to be honest, I really think that it’s better to be in between; what with the media, men, women, and so on placing value on bigger breasts these days, it isn’t getting any easier for A-cups out there. I am an A-cup myself, and what I find most frustrating about it is that I can’t wear certain clothes simply because my breasts aren’t big enough to fill it in, and as for stuffing? Please. I’d rather not.
Jewel: i was gonna say Triumph Pushup bras… hahaha.. but then again.. once one takes them off.. or let’s say.. wears a sports bra at another time n place.. i mean.. it’s ‘misleading’ u konw what i mean? :D so yeah, bravo to all women who wear their breasts/ chests, big or small.. proud n tall.. seriously, be happy with what you have.. not what you don’t! :D
n no, im not saying tt it’s not possible to look nicer/fuller with a little help from paddings.. hahaha..
Yes about the inner beauty, but really you gotta have some boobs lol.
I’m getting a breast augmentation on December 4 not because I think I’ll look better, but because I’ll be less embarrassed in public.
theres good and bad in all bodies.. with Big tits you better get used to 90% the blokes you meet talking to your tits. With small tits you know your natural and less likely to sag or have health problems in future, and guys are probably checkin out your ass instead..
wow this is amazing.. such powerful words in an everyday topic. i am touched by this and it is great to hear from a caring person! =)
Well yes and no becous its matter to wat guys like i no my boyfriend likes super bike and if u want his address its
motor_bikeboy@hotmail.com
hey…i think that most girls and women are influenced, much the same as many guys by the media and their interpritation of the perfect woman (slim, tanned, big boobs) they are fake and these women go through airbrushing and retouching before they get published in mags and newspapers. so really i think it doesnt matter what size breasts you have and i think that if a guy judges you on that then they are shallow and NOT worth your time of day. Just try not to let it get to you :D:D
of course it matters thats pretty much all i want is beeg boobs in a girl, my ex had a huge set an they were fun
Mike Paahana: ur such an idiot. and lot of gils hear that bout ya they’ll think ur a jerk and not goin for personality.
anyhow…..after reading this artical i am feelin a lil less self-consious. and yeah its true…if i had big boobs they would get in the way but teh n u wouldnt want to be flat either. soo i would say in between would just be perfect. soo i say 36A to B’S AND C’S r good. but bigger…umm not the greatst. and too small….thats sad. sooo i ahve a question to everyone on here.
here it is: is 34B small??is that size considered flat-chested??
thanx everyone!!! and plz give me bunch of opinions!
kara: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I’m glad that you’re feeling a little less self conscious after reading this page.
As for your question on whether 34B is small… well - all I can say is that as long as you go around seeking the opinion of others/seeking the acceptance of others on your own condition/physique - you will never be satisfied with what you have. Why? Because we live in a world where nothing can ever be perfect. Our standards today are tainted and distorted. So if you gauge your progress and live your life according to the standards of others.. you will never, ever be satisfied.
thanx sooo much for replying back to me! im gonna try to live my life satisfied. i may not be full satisfied but i can try lol.
I have dated women of different breast sizes, from A-cup to D-cup. Although I would never ask a girl out because of her breast size, I absoutely adore small breasts…A-cup to small B-cu. They are so much sexier!
this is to: Rick Thompson: Really..wow…im very happy to hear that from a guy. its nice to know that there is men out there who arent only dating/bein with women cause of thier chest size! and thanks for responding, too!
and i guess if ya think about atleast i know that when im with a guy…..they arent just being with me because of a big chest size……and i got a small one…
thanks everyone!!!! :)
I have small breasts as the world dictates this. I have thought of breast implants due to brain washing. heres my thing I’m 122 lbs. 5′3 tall 30 yrs old I have 4 daughters last but not least my breast size are 32 A I read all comments I now have different perspectives on this subject thank you all for your opinions I still think I would love to have what I use to have before my daughters is that to much to ask for? Neah just want my confidence back
Do not regret my babies but regret breast FEEDING!! thats where I lost mine!
Hey how many woman can say they are 122 lbs after four children i have alot to be thankful for still……….. wish for money to pay for my breast surgery so that i feel like my old self again. Thank you the man whom created implants to help people feel good again.
I haven’t written since Aug 10 2007–if you read my comment, I still feel the same way. And more, I think a woman with A,B size is nice, C is more than a handful, and D and above is a backache for you ladies.
Mindy, I understand what you say. I know women who had the same experience as you–breast feed and they deflated. However, the bond between mom & child that makes is really important. Otherwise, if he’s a boy, turned man, he’ll wind “breast deprived,” — missing nuture. You did the right thing by breast feeding.
If you have breasts, then you are lucky. Some women don’t. And if they are a flat tire compared to what they used to be (32A is nice BTW), there are all kinds of things (so I understand) that can make you look bigger to the world, if that’s what you feel you must have, without surgery. Please don’t let size or even going totally flat, because you breast feed your children, make you feel less; the truth is you are greater for it.
What I want to know is where is your husband who it’d be nice if he said, “sweetheart, I understand & see what you mean, but I want you to know I love you just the way you are and I think you are so beautiful…” where is the support he could be giving you so it’d help you feel you haven’t lost a thing–not in his eyes, and it needn’t be that way in yours.
Rather than breast implants, I think you need more, an infusion of lots of chocolate and roses. And smiles, touch, hugs, that let you know, no matter what, it is You, not your breasts that matter.
If he’s not around to say that, then as a man, let me tell you, the touch of a woman’s breast is nice, the touch of her hand is nice, she need not change a thing–except maybe put on a a bit of lotion to keep both moisturized and supple.
For me, my heart is not tied to a woman’s breasts, but to the sparkle in her eyes, and in who she is, not what she is.
I’d be perfectly happy with a sweetheart with 32A and I’d make darn sure she knows it and feels as much happiness as I can give her, for being just the way she is.
(btw, there is a way to increase your breast size without using implants. It is possible to lactate without being pregnant and can be fun along the way. You might look into that as an alternative–or just get a frying pan out and threaten your husband with it: if he doesn’t start telling you how good you look.)
Bob
Big and small are all beautiful. Just be healthy and happy. I personally used to be into big breasts, but have recently fallen in love with smaller breasts, since meeting the love of my life. A handful is enough and I prefer a nice fit sexy body. anyways, just keep fit and healthy and let the rest take natures course.
why other girls are pretending that they have big boobs,,to attract some boys
why ??
for me big breast
is very important
because when you
dress up it fit
when guys saw u
.then you attracted
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It’s tough being a bigger girl… I have such a hard time finding nice styles in my size. Oh yeah… by the way great post!
kara, u must be 1 ugly fat broad, u a head case jus like my gf, any girl hoo says go for personality is butt ugly an only can get laid from geeks an nerds, jus look around at aall the movies an tv beeg tits is ALL that matters
well Mike Paahana… to be honest..i am very skinny lol…i wear size 5 jeans, sz small shirt. and i am very pretty..so is my sister. and i am 5.6…close to 5.7. and i know i am hott. ask any guy..or girl who knows me…they would agree… i can almost go out w/anybody….i have to be honest.
first of all…ur probably some beer drinking, ugly ..and probably has bunch of porn mags. adn a big fuckin jerk. ohh and umm ewwww gettin laid w.some geeks. umm yeah i get the opposite…and i get em.
soo maybe u should shut up ur fuckin big mouth…and find some real girls u can start a life with and can truly love. no girl should have you cause all u wantin is some fat ass boobs..that r usually full of fat like their body..or they’re fake..takin pills or special creams that ruin ur hormones…or all the fat is goin to their boobs. and my boobs r nice…34-36B is good.and i have a great shape….and im fit..and very sporty…oh did i mention pretty good arm muscels….. sooo get to ur senses shithead.
kara sounds like u want me, i must get u dripping wet just thinking bout me, if u be reel nice i may do u up the ass just 4 fun
Dont worry about Mike Paahana Kara.
If he wants that let him get that. there are plenty of guys who like other things amongst them a nice girl with a good nature. Plus u r right…its pretty rare to get that combination of big boobs and also fit and slim.
Anyways, dont worry about all that. Just stay healthy and you will be sexy. Sporty is definitely sexy.
real man u must b a girl or queer acting like u so good, b reel everybody all reel men want is beeg boobs
Kara, Google mike paahana and you will find multiple sites that prove he is sic.
He appears to be a middle aged immature man who uses
the Internet to prey upon women with low self esteem looking for sex.
His fixation on breast demonstrates his shallow juvenile emotional thinking.
He mentions an ex since no woman in her right mind would ever stay with an irresponsible creep like him.
Men like this think life is just one big frat party with no consequences.
He probably has no ambition and lives with his mother and
never knew his father which contributes to his no sense of values.
Looking at some of his other post he is obviously uneducated and can’t hold even a menial job,
He is definitely unfit, physically not attractive and
feels he must make up for it with emotional abuse of anyone that he can get a reaction from.
Men like this will never and don’t want to ever grow up thinking their youth was their happiest times.
They would prefer to blame all their problems on something or someone else,
unfortunately the ones that are out there make life miserable for many people.
This is their only excuse that justifies their selfish nature and will
never be a contributing member of society.
Their existence is fueled by the amount of conquest they can amass
either with one night stands or false commitments to ’she is the one this time’
sadly the women who fall prey to such behavior will ultimately discover that he will not change.
Women need to understand it is how you feel about yourself and genuine men will recognize
true beauty regardless of physical attributes.
All that can be done is ignore idiots like mike and know that all men don’t want “TO BE Like Mike”
Kara’s Friend: Thanks for taking the time to write out that reply - may it speak to the lives of more people than you can ever imagine out there..
Kara’s friend, many thanks for speaking out. It is a shame that these creatures exist I too was once so naive to beliieve that my partner was going trough a phase and would or could change. Unfortunatly what i thought was cute boyish charm was really immature porn addicted creep. Luckly I had the strength to get out before it was too late and realize that it was him and not me. Funny how educated well adjust women can fall for such men and the real men are not the charming cool guys that they just want to have fun. I am now with the perfect man who loves me for who I am and not my breast size, he is my best friend, accepts me as I am.
u all stupid people, if u ever get 1 chance 4 get 4 sleep with Mike Da Man u would not think like dat coz i make women want more
Mike-
Do you seem at all literate when you speak? Because I don’t understand, based on your writing style, how any woman could possibly even talk to you, much less decide “2 sleep with Mike Da Man”.
will eating bread help make them bigger?
Monica: Nope, I believe it won’t. Eating excessively may make you gain more weight, and give the ‘appearance’ of having bigger breasts.. but you don’t want to neglect your entire body just for the sake of your chest.
I am flat chested and I don’t have problems meeting guys because I always wear padded bra. My biggest fear is that I would get rejected once the guy reaches to feel my breasts and there’s nothing there. Does bigger breast makes sex feel better?
I think this is an excellent article, and have enjoyed reading it and the comments. My fiancee has large C’s (I forget the actual numer) and she says they’ve started growing into D’s like her mother has. She is a short girl around 5 feet tall, and while she loves her breasts (as do I) we both agree that it’s probably not the best thing that they’re so big. Even though she’s active, she carries around a fair ammount of weight, and on a girl that short, it makes her breasts look even larger than normal. Thankfully, she’s become more conscious of what she eats and is trying to get into the habit of exercising more often - as am I, I’m also a bit overweight at 180 pounds (5′10″).
As for the topic of breast size.. we’ve talked about it and we both feel that smaller breasts are actually more attractive. I’ve always found smaller to be more appealing, and often wondered what it is other guys see in huge breasts, especially those fake ones that don’t look natural and just scream “implants” as loudly as possible.
And to “swt”. Let me say that from experience, bigger breasts do NOT make sex feel better. Granted having a little something is better than nothing because while breasts are filled with fat, they’re also filled with nerves. And as you may know, concentrated areas of nerve bundles are more sensitive. So if you have a small bosom, the feel of your partner’s touch will be very positive and pleasurable. On the other hand, large breasts have a much higher fat to nerve ratio, and so the sensitivity goes down with considerable noticability. I personally feel that a girl with smaller breasts (anything below C) will experience more pleasure from the exact same breast-related activity as a woman with something bigger.
Also, uhm.. kind of an eye-opener for some people I’m sure, but… while being playfully smacked with breasts may feel nice. There isn’t a lot of pleasure to be derived from getting bludgeoned by your partner’s massive breasts. Unless you’re into pain or something. *shrug*. Fat has weight, and weight hurts when it connects with a sensitive part of the body. (lol)
Oh, and I think I didn’t mention it, but while I prefer smaller breasts. Breasts themselves aren’t a big issue with me. The first thing I notice on a woman is her hair, because I’m rather attractived to longer hair. But as for actually knowing a girl, I find myself attracted both friendly/sexually by personality before physical appearence.
swt my gf use padded bra 4 fool people to think she has boobs but if i new it wood have made me think about her fooling me
I RECALL A QUOTE, “I ADORE THE FLAT CHESTED FEM FOR MY HART IS CLOSER TO YOURS” . AS SIZE DOES NOT MATTER IN MALE OR FEMALE, THE PENIS OR BREAST,(SO I READ) IT IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER. I LOVE SMALL BEASTED LADIES. THEY LOOK HOT IN A ONE PEICE BATHING SUIT, AND MORE BEAUTIFUL NAKED. WHEN I SEE MANY LADIES AT THE BEACH OR POOL, I SEEM TO LOOK AT THE IBTCs (itty bitty titty commitee) THEY ARE MORE PLEASENT TO LOOK AT AND FUN TO FONDEL.. I DID HAVE A BAD EXPERIENCE WITH LARGE BREASTS. WHEN PLAYING WITH THEM ,THEY SMELLED LIKE THE ARM PITS AND THOUGHT I WAS HURTING THEM SINCE MY HANDS COULD NOT CUP THEM AND PULL THEM BACK TIGHT. I ALSO NOTICED THIS: MEN WILL COMMENT ON LARGE BREASTED WOMEN BUT STARE AT TINY TITTIED LADIES. MY LOVE FOR SMALL BREASTED GIRLS MY ALSO STEM FROM MY SMALL PENIS. I AM JUST UNDER 4 INCHES WHEN ERECT. IT CAN GET LESS THAN HALF INCH WHEN FLACID. THIS IS HARD TO HIDE THIS LITTLE UNIT IN A SPEEDO SWIMSUIT. MY TESTIES ARE SMALL AS WELL. I FOUND THE OPISITE OCCURS. WOMEN WILL STARE AT THE LARGE PENIS AND COMMENT ON THE LITTLE WEINER.
SO LETS HEAR IT FOR THE UNDERGOG, THE SMALL, THE TINY, THE FLAT, AND THE NOT WELL ENDOWED. THEY ARE CUTE TO LOOK AT AND FUN TO PLAY WITH.
TINY BREAST ARE BEST
small boobs are cuter and sexier
big boobs are ugly and saggy
im a guy and i reckon girls with smaller boobs are hotter mostly cuz their skinnier
Wasssup Happy New Year everybody, i hope u flash ur boobies in public 4 new year so everybody cood see
Mike… you never fail to amuse me my friend. Happy New Year!
i am 19 and I wear a 32 A. I have never had a guy say anything negative to me in the bedroom. I have been criticized by doctors, though. It hurts to be given a card of a plastic surgeon by a gyno….but overall, i am trying to except my small perky boobs. I am very petite and guys often say they are proportionate. I will try to look on the bright side.
Actually, I am thankful for my bust size. I have so many things about my breasts that i feel are perfect. The only downside about them is men making fun of me for it. They expect me to want the big boobs and either buy them or grow them. I don’t want huge boobs, it would be nice if a guy would too in person.
I’m only 14 and i have 34B breasts. I don’t want my boobs to grow any longer but i’m sure they will; Becasue they are ugly and saggy when they are absolutely huge. I perfer them at this size, becasue they are perfect to me. But i have one question, how would you get rid of stretch marks? My boobs have been big since i was 11. I have stretch marks, and they make my breasts, look un-attractive.
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I’m a 36 A and let me tell you small boobs will never be someones first choice. Most men go for b-c only a few like over c and non like below b so how do you deal with that girls with b36 breast size shut up guys love that size they love B36-C36 if your my size your probably struggling too with the no one wants to be with you and no one likes you. Because thats exactly what I deal with. No one likes me because I have A “flat chest” everyone pushes me around because I’m the emo chick with no figure. Big boobs would defiantly help me endure my life long dream to be appropriated and cared for not just simply made fun of or pushed around.
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